Frequency of Married...Relations.

[rawaction]

I want to thank you all for making me feel oh so excited about getting married. :roll:

 

Though, I'm suspecting you guys are mostly right. We had a lot more sex when we didn't even live together. Now we let things like sleep and work get in the way.

[rawaction]

I'm getting married and I mentioned to my fience I was looking forward to getting nookie every night and she made a face then said "Every night?".

 

 

Folks, the witting is on the wall.

A married friend of mine (a guy) said that he thinks 2-4 times a week is actually better than every night, just because that way there's a little more effort out of both involved... I guess it's sort of the mentality where it's still regarded as a treat, whereas any sustained stretch of every night will make it turn into more of a chore.

 

His words, not mine. I'm just throwing them out there.

Quoted for truth.

 

Oh, and for statistical purposes, married for 18 months, in the relationship for 6+ years.

 

I kinda agree. Although, sometimes I want a stretch of about every night for 2 weeks straight.

[Ding Dong Johnson]

sometimes I want a stretch of about every night for 2 weeks straight.

 

that happened to me 2 years ago this month -- it was wonderful (and went away just as quickly as it came)

 

she still has no explanation as to why that happened

[jersey cubs fan]

I want to thank you all for making me feel oh so excited about getting married. :roll:

 

Though, I'm suspecting you guys are mostly right. We had a lot more sex when we didn't even live together. Now we let things like sleep and work get in the way.

 

I think people are ignoring the single biggest factor in all of this.

 

 

To be kind, I'll say it's "familiarity."

 

 

Raw, I will point you to the Eddie Murphy skit about Ritz crackers and regular saltines.

 

If you're starving and somebody

throw you a cracker,

 

you gonna be like this:

 

"[expletive], that's the best cracker

I ever ate in my life!

 

"That ain't no regular cracker, was it?

What was that, a Saltine?

 

"[expletive], that was delicious.

 

"That wasn't no Saltine. That was...

That was a Ritz. That wasn't a Ritz?

 

"God, that was the best cracker

I ever ate in my life.

 

"Can I have another one, please?

Please, one more."

 

Then you get married, because

you think you've found the bomb.

 

Have the same crackers

every day for a year.

 

And you roll over one day

and be like:

 

"Hey, I just got some

regular old crackers."

 

Try to leave? Half!

[CubmanPi]

I want to thank you all for making me feel oh so excited about getting married. :roll:

 

Though, I'm suspecting you guys are mostly right. We had a lot more sex when we didn't even live together. Now we let things like sleep and work get in the way.

 

I think people are ignoring the single biggest factor in all of this.

 

 

To be kind, I'll say it's "familiarity."

 

 

Raw, I will point you to the Eddie Murphy skit about Ritz crackers and regular saltines.

 

If you're starving and somebody

throw you a cracker,

 

you gonna be like this:

 

"[expletive], that's the best cracker

I ever ate in my life!

 

"That ain't no regular cracker, was it?

What was that, a Saltine?

 

"[expletive], that was delicious.

 

"That wasn't no Saltine. That was...

That was a Ritz. That wasn't a Ritz?

 

"God, that was the best cracker

I ever ate in my life.

 

"Can I have another one, please?

Please, one more."

 

Then you get married, because

you think you've found the bomb.

 

Have the same crackers

every day for a year.

 

And you roll over one day

and be like:

 

"Hey, I just got some

regular old crackers."

 

Try to leave? Half!

This will never happen to me. My girlfriend is Asian.

 

/ba dum TING

[moorecg]

I'm sure every married man has had the "porn fight" with their wife (ie "why do you watch porn, shouldn't I be enough" fight).

 

My wife fails to grasp that, at least to me, it's less about hot chicks doing it, and more about chicks WANTING to do it. What a crazy concept...women who like sex and are willing to initiate it!

 

WHERE? They exist? I've never seen one in captivity (marriage)...that would be a rare beast indeed.

[CubmanPi]

I'm sure every married man has had the "porn fight" with their wife (ie "why do you watch porn, shouldn't I be enough" fight).

 

My wife fails to grasp that, at least to me, it's less about hot chicks doing it, and more about chicks WANTING to do it. What a crazy concept...women who like sex and are willing to initiate it!

 

WHERE? They exist? I've never seen one in captivity (marriage)...that would be a rare beast indeed.

I've never had any trouble locating said species in the wild, so when I undertake domestication, I'm going to have to brace myself for some serious culture shock.

[seanimal]

I'm not married, and I don't want to skew the poll, so could anyone apprise me of the numbers?

[CubColtPacer]

I'm not married, and I don't want to skew the poll, so could anyone apprise me of the numbers?

 

All you have to do is click on view results-it's right under the poll options, and you can look for yourself as many times as you want without having to vote.

[jkrapfl]

I'm not married, and I don't want to skew the poll, so could anyone apprise me of the numbers?

 

All you have to do is click on view results-it's right under the poll options, and you can look for yourself as many times as you want without having to vote.

 

I thought the only way to get the results was to wait for killthegoat to post an update.

[Ding Dong Johnson]

I thought the only way to get the results was to wait for killthegoat to post an update.

 

awesome

[killthegoat06]

I'm not married, and I don't want to skew the poll, so could anyone apprise me of the numbers?

 

All you have to do is click on view results-it's right under the poll options, and you can look for yourself as many times as you want without having to vote.

 

I thought the only way to get the results was to wait for killthegoat to post an update.

 

Ouch. Fair enough.

[Derwood]

I thought the only way to get the results was to wait for killthegoat to post an update.

 

awesome

 

he'll be passing you on the post count list any day now

[killthegoat06]

I thought the only way to get the results was to wait for killthegoat to post an update.

 

awesome

 

he'll be passing you on the post count list any day now

7000 posts more? give it a week.

[B]

I thought the only way to get the results was to wait for killthegoat to post an update.

 

awesome

 

he'll be passing you on the post count list any day now

7000 posts more? give it a week.

 

I'd be suprised if it takes you that long. Get a job you bum. :lol:

[Careless]

I want to thank you all for making me feel oh so excited about getting married. :roll:

 

Though, I'm suspecting you guys are mostly right. We had a lot more sex when we didn't even live together. Now we let things like sleep and work get in the way.

 

I think people are ignoring the single biggest factor in all of this.

 

 

To be kind, I'll say it's "familiarity."

.

That wouldn't explain both a drop off after marriage if you dated for a long time beforehand and a dropoff after marriage if you didn't date for long (you and bob). I'm going to have to say there's something about nailing a guy down that changes things. On the male side, familiarity definitely lowers your drive. It can be documented in things like sperm counts. want to get her pregnant? don't see your wife (literally, don't be in the same room at all) for a few days before she ovulates.

 

(as for me, 7 years dating, 1.5 married, no real decrease yet. Too early for a call, but looks good for me.

[jersey cubs fan]

I want to thank you all for making me feel oh so excited about getting married. :roll:

 

Though, I'm suspecting you guys are mostly right. We had a lot more sex when we didn't even live together. Now we let things like sleep and work get in the way.

 

I think people are ignoring the single biggest factor in all of this.

 

 

To be kind, I'll say it's "familiarity."

.

That wouldn't explain both a drop off after marriage if you dated for a long time beforehand and a dropoff after marriage if you didn't date for long (you and bob).

 

It's not until after marriage until the "last person you'll sleep with" thing really hits you in the head.

[Derwood]

I want to thank you all for making me feel oh so excited about getting married. :roll:

 

Though, I'm suspecting you guys are mostly right. We had a lot more sex when we didn't even live together. Now we let things like sleep and work get in the way.

 

I think people are ignoring the single biggest factor in all of this.

 

 

To be kind, I'll say it's "familiarity."

.

That wouldn't explain both a drop off after marriage if you dated for a long time beforehand and a dropoff after marriage if you didn't date for long (you and bob).

 

It's not until after marriage until the "last person you'll sleep with" thing really hits you in the head.

 

there's always the Dayton Swim Club

[brinoch]

I want to thank you all for making me feel oh so excited about getting married. :roll:

 

Though, I'm suspecting you guys are mostly right. We had a lot more sex when we didn't even live together. Now we let things like sleep and work get in the way.

 

I think people are ignoring the single biggest factor in all of this.

 

 

To be kind, I'll say it's "familiarity."

.

That wouldn't explain both a drop off after marriage if you dated for a long time beforehand and a dropoff after marriage if you didn't date for long (you and bob).

 

It's not until after marriage until the "last person you'll sleep with" thing really hits you in the head.

 

there's always the Dayton Swim Club

 

lol