You seemed unnecessarily aggressive for a moderator and came off as kind of a dick. Outshined_One had a much better response to the same post and yet you still felt the need to come over the top in your response to the same post. Then when Old Style responded, you again were super aggressive with your response. You're a moderator right? Act like one. If a kid in a class calls a teacher a jerk, are you okay with the teacher responding by calling the kid a jerk?
I'm not absolving Old Style from blame in this whole thing. It just seems like a situation that escalated unnecessary and both sides share blame.