The rule was written to prevent a player or his family from receiving benefits. I'm not sure the act of asking for benefit and having that request denied by the school was even contemplated when that SEC bylaw was written. Has any athlete ever been made ineligible because their parents requested a benefit while the university rebuffed the request? I do think you'll see those bylaws made more clear after this incident. I have no idea. I would guess that some (most?) schools wouldn't report such a request (or may not "know" of it - if the request is made to an assistant coach or a booster). One intent of the rule is clearly to prevent the receipt of benefits. But it also clearly intends to prohibit something that falls short of the actual exchange of benefits, or the addition language "agree to receive" would not be included. I'd be surprised if that language wasn't targeted at this sort of situation (player's family requests benefits). If not, it's pretty dumb to allow a player or his family to go around asking for benefits without penalty, that is, unless you don't really want to discourage the practice of exchanging improper benefits. AU may have done nothing wrong and may not deserve punishment in the sense of bowl bans or lost scholarships. But that doesn't mean Newton shouldn't be punished as set forth in this bylaw. Step back from your AU fandom and think about this logically. Why would you punish a player for receiving benefits and agreeing to receive benefits, but not for asking to receive benefits. Are the last 2 situations so different that the player deserves punishment in the former but not the latter? If you want to prevent improper benefits to players, it would seem that you'd need to prohibit players from making requests for such benefits. 'agrees to receive' could be interpreted to mean that an agreement between two entities is reached for benefits to be provided at some point in the future. Allow me to say that I could definitely be led down the path you are taking if that's the side I needed to argue. Bottom line, Slive exercised his power to interpret an SEC bylaw that was written in a fashion that requires interpretation as it relates to solicitation. Obviously, it was in his best interest, the SEC's best interest for him to not rule Cam ineligible based upon SEC bylaw 14.01.3.2. He had wiggle room, he used it. It helps that there is evidently no precedent for using this bylaw to rule an athlete ineligible in a case in which the athlete's family solicated a benefit and the university denied the request. This has to happen at least occassionally, and you are probably right when you mention that most universities likely don't self report this.