First of all no need to bring up Addison Russell, let alone his wife as if anything she did would explain Russell assaulting her.
Next, I never said Cabrera for Shaw was fair. I have said Cassie + maybe Brown, Wicks or Assad was fair. When the poster who originally put out his proposal he had Alcantara and Shaw for Cabrera and Sanoja. While I agree that isn’t fair for the Cubs, I did say perhaps the poster realized Alcantara for Cabrera was too one sided the Cubs way and added the other 2 players. If the original offer would be Alcantara for Cabrera and another piece was added each way, the Cubs piece would have to be stronger. Shaw and Sanoja does go too strong the other way.
I will also add getting a young controlled pitcher is going to hurt. Probably more than what people expect or want to give up here. Cubs fans (all fans, really) always overvalue the their prospects and/or players and undervalue who they get. While I agree Shaw for Cabrera is too much, the Marlins might not think so. Same with Gore or Ryan. As a Cubs fan I would do everything I could not to use Shaw as the centerpiece for a controllable pitcher of only 2 or 3 years. They will need him for second or third base for 2027.