Listen, I respect that you're seeking out Cubs talk and may want to take in news/political talk in moderation, I have to do that a lot too to avoid consuming too much outrage in my life. But for one, talking about the situation as 'shooting off about a father,son,friend's death' is a laughable mischaracterization that normally means that you just don't want to hear negative talk about someone you have neutral/positive impressions of. And more importantly, the conversation is about Shaw missing a fairly important BASEBALL game(basically 2, because he was only PH the day of Kirk's death). There's no digging through the nooks and crannies of Shaw's life to find an association to cast judgment on, he stopped playing because of it! The idea that isn't worthy of conversation and potential judgment is beyond silly.