Exactly. And honestly, as soon as you start talking to a girl, it doesn't really matter how you're dressed. She's going to (hopefully) judge you off your personality at that point, so as long as you aren't wearing jorts and a sleeveless shirt (unless you're in Arkansas), your personality is what's going to matter. It's all about that icebreaker. except that most women are actually more shallow about looks than guys are Maybe it's just because I live in a small college town, but it's mostly guys that are into looks only, at least around here. I can attest to this because I am in no way attractive (but I'm quite charming!)