just getting caught up on this. Jesus what an offensive article. i'm adopted and have no interest in meeting my birth parents. i'm glad my birth mother decided to have me and put me up for adoption, and i'm glad that i ended up with the people i call my parents, but beyond that, i have no need. i was adopted when i was two weeks old. i've never known my parents as anything other than that. they loved me and supported me. they're my parents; my brother is my brother. that's it. i'd feel awful if some guy went around badgering me to get in touch with my birth parents and calling my birth mother and harassing her too. [expletive] rick reilly. what a condescending piece of [expletive]. I'm in the same situation. I actually had an opportunity to meet my birth mother years ago, and I turned it down. I just felt like I knew who my real parents were, and it wasn't my biological ones. Also, I felt like my father, who was recently a widower at the time, would have been hurt by it. The bottom line is, this is always an incredibly personal thing, and nobody should ever trample on someone else's reasons for doing what they do. Reilly is trash. My dad and my uncle are adopted. My uncle is married to a woman who is adopted and has an adopted brother. My dad is the only one of the four that decided to meet his biological mother. It would have been better if he had not met her, or his three half-siblings from his mom, or finding out that he was one of at least 22 children fathered by his biological father who died before my dad could meet him. His adopted family was astronomically a better situation than his biological family would have been. I'm sure that's the case in most adoption cases and sure seems to be the case in the Kaepernick situation. This is not a one size fits all situation, and I wouldn't fault any adopted person for making either decision.