This has got to best the greatest non-sequitor ever. I have no idea what you are talking about. When I got engaged, a friend shared with me a story about the jelly bean jar. If you put a jelly bean in the jar every time you have sex with your to-be before you get married and then take one out for every time you have sex afterwards, you will never run out of jelly beans. we dated for a year before we got married and have been married for 8. by my calculations, I'd still have about 340 jelly beans in that bad boy "Dated" for 5 years, married for 3. I won't even begin to calculate it.