i guess i'm not sure what you're asking. but if you're like "boy I want a divorce" but just haven't filed the papers, doing so after your spouse gets cancer is a horsefeathers thing to do, yes. of course, if your spouse is abusive and you're happy he got cancer bc he'll die a miserable, painful death, then divorce away. but generally i think dropping divorce papers on someone on their way to chemo is yeah, you're an horsefeathers territory.