did she get really fat after yall split up and then you revisited? no, but I only slept with her to a) make her leave me alone and b) to bust a slump in my experience, sleeping with a woman does nothing towards getting her to leave me alone...in fact it pretty much works the other way i dated her freshman year, didn't break it off at the end of the year, but never talked to her all summer. came back, tried picking it up again, but i wasn't into it. she semi-stalked me the rest of the year and found her way up to my room one night somehow so I said "well, what the hell?" Did the deed, booted her from my room....yeah, pretty much a low point on the chivalry scale but i think she got the picture