for some reason, i had it in my head that this girl was in hawaii the whole time following the accident, while getting leukemia treatment, etc. then i realized she was allegedly in california. i also didn't realize the accident apparently occurred 8 months before she died of cancer. so the love of his life almost dies in a car accident and begins undergoing treatment for leukemia over the span of 8-9 months and te'o doesn't go see her. and apparently the car accident occurs 8 months before she "died of cancer," which means it was in january, which means te'o had nothing but time on his hands after the 2011 football season was over. and he doesn't go visit her. sociopath seems more likely than gullible to me at this point. or [expletive] boyfriend ever. if he was duped, the whole point would be that she "wouldn't" meet him or kept putting it off for various reasons. i was totally catfished when i was 16. the major differences in circumstance would be: 1) it was 1999 and it was a lot harder to see if people existed on search engines and stuff 2) no "real" boys were ever going to talk to me, so i had more motivation than te'o the football star to believe it was legit. it continued off-and-on for years and there was always drama, so the car accident and leukemia don't surprise me. i think the guy was in intensive care with sepsis (!) once or something and i received "updates" from family members. there was also an eating disorder drama and a past sexual abuse drama, although those might have been for real. as with te'o, the whole thing was so exciting that i would go on and on about it to anyone who would listen. (luckily, i didn't confirm for sure that this person was actually female until 6-7 years later when the whole thing was long over. at that point i was embarrassed for about five minutes and then decided it was hilarious. it finally made sense, and it's better that a normal looking girl with identity issues knew my address than a creepy old man killer.) of course there's a big possibility he was in on it. but if not, i would believe that it was one messed up person who got unwitting people to help him (like the girl who posed for the pictures). not a big conspiracy of people out to get te'o.