The five stages of grief over the 2006 season are: 1-Denial-"this can't be happening to the Cubs again", No crying. Not accepting or even acknowledging the losses. 2-Anger-"why the Cubs again?", feelings of wanting to fight back or get even with the management, blaming the players for being hurt. 3-Bargaining-bargaining often takes place before the loss. Attempting to make deals with other teams or attempting to make deals with God to stop or change the losing. Begging, wishing, praying for them to come back. 4-Depression-overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, frustration, bitterness, self pity, mourning losses of games as well as the hopes, dreams and plans for the World Series. Feeling lack of control, feeling numb. Perhaps even feeling like rooting for another team. 5-Acceptance-there is a difference between resignation and acceptance. You have to accept the losing, not just try to bear it quietly. Realization that it takes more then wishfulthinking to make a season succesful. Realization that the Team is gone (in death of the season) that it is not their fault, they didn't lose on purpose. (even in cases of talentlessness, often the teams were not in the same league as other teams) Finding the good players that can come out of the pain of losing, finding comfort and healing of our hurt players. Our goals turn toward personal growth and next year 2007. Stay with fond memories of the season thus far as rare as that might be. Finding help for next year and healing the hurt players. They will survive. They will get better, even if you cannot believe that now, just know that it is true. To feel pain after a loss is normal. It proves that we are alive, human and Cubs fans. But we can't stop living. We have to become stronger, while not shutting off our feelings for the hope of one day winning the World Series. Helping others through something we have experienced is a wonderful way to fascilitate our healing and bring good out of this tragic season.