Im divorced. I didnt want to be. Im good now but man, theres nothing worse than believing you found the person you will spend the rest of your life with, having kids with that person, and then finding out later that their feelings have changed and theres nothing you can do to change their mind. To go through all of that on top of knowing that friends and family probably suspect you must've done something wrong because they dont have the whole story - and they dont need to know the whole story, because it really isnt a story...its tough. Ive never really cared for Ben all that much off of the field before, but (without knowing any of the details) I can relate to what he's going through. To be away from the team and game he so obviously loves must mean what he's going through is brutal on him. I hope he's doing ok and makes it through.