what is the criteria for 'accepted losses'? is there somehow a cool way of losing i'm not aware of? No...just when the Cubs are going into the 9th down two, I tend to have time to rationalize that losing isn't the end of the world, and it happens to all teams, etc. But when they start a fake rally in the 9th, I can't help but get myself excited again. And then when we fail, it feels like a second loss.