Look, this isn't a "here's rules specific to NSBB" situation. Or even "here's how you should behave on a forum" situation. This is a "here's how you should handle life" situation. When you join a community, take some time to feel it out, see how things work. You know that weird awkward first month or so in a new job, where you feel out new people, and new procedures to figure out the lay of the land? That applies here too. As far as your demand for a forum rules/sticky, we've had them before, and at some point it got archived/moved. We'll look at possibly a new one...maybe. But it shouldn't be necessary. And it's not like it really solved a ton of issues when it was around.