for some reason, i had it in my head that this girl was in hawaii the whole time following the accident, while getting leukemia treatment, etc. then i realized she was allegedly in california. i also didn't realize the accident apparently occurred 8 months before she died of cancer. so the love of his life almost dies in a car accident and begins undergoing treatment for leukemia over the span of 8-9 months and te'o doesn't go see her. and apparently the car accident occurs 8 months before she "died of cancer," which means it was in january, which means te'o had nothing but time on his hands after the 2011 football season was over. and he doesn't go visit her. sociopath seems more likely than gullible to me at this point. or [expletive] boyfriend ever. She told him she was in a car accident about 3 months after they started corresponding (email, twitter, phone, whatever). the car accident is the hook the the catfish game. he's on the line, now she gets cancer and it's over. he's going to spend the next several months emailing, talking on the phone, texting, and setting up meetings in Hawaii that she doesn't make and then excuses. yes, if you think she's in hawaii and he never sees her or that they've been dating 4 years before she's in a car accident, etc., if those are the facts, it's hard to believe he's that gullible. But that's never been the story.