here's something he says that i don't really agree with: everyone keeps saying that if they were in that position they'd call the cops immediately, or run in and beat the [expletive] out of sandusky. but mcqueary's reaction is really common. so is the one within the psu administration (basically ignoring or rationalizing the problem - NOTE this is not a defense of what they did in any way). because this isn't just a penn state problem, this is something that happens all over the world - a "pillar of the community," "close friend," "family member" is seen doing something that completely conflicts with the upstanding, good-hearted person that those around them came to know. so people push it off, don't report it, assume it was just innocent horseplay, because such-and-such would never do something like this. i just think that it would be more useful if people tried to understand why people react the way they do, and (using this terrible example) train people to react differently, rather than just the usual "i'd never let that happen" from people totally detached from the situation.