All is the key word there. I don't think she is lying, but that doesn't mean he 100% did everything she claimed. While it still makes you a POS there is a big gap between being a mean BF and putting your hands on someone. That's why time and time again I've said I have no idea what happened, only 2 people deep down know everything that happened. Do you know he did all of what was claimed? Why are you drawing your line of "belief" at physical abuse. Why are you willing to believe that he was "mean" but less willing to believe that he hit her?