So if you talk about some guy who break your heart and stomped on it after over 2 years of living together and spending everyday together and you call him a "scumbag" or "douchebag" or if he was promiscuous on you, you call him a "manwhore", then I shouldn't have to put up with it? We're not talking about a racial slur. It's a term in common usage among people in this country to describe some people they dislike. I'm not a woman or gay so I wouldn't refer to guys in that manner. But I wouldn't use a forum such as this to debase my ex's. It comes off as sour grapes, dude. Maybe it wasn't her, maybe it was you. Maybe she got sick of your constant need to reaffirm your heterosexuality through pictures of your ex's. I don't know, I'm not Dr. Phil. And you didn't just stop at labeling her a "bitch", you also labeled her a "skank". Those seem like pretty gender specific slurs to me. Baseball :?: