I have so many amazing golf stories from my time in San Diego, but have yet to take my clubs to a golf course in Central Illinois when I moved here in November of '21. I still take my clubs with me to Cali when we drive out there, which is sometimes 2 times a year.
My reasons are unselfish for the most part. Reason #1 is my wife went through hell before we moved back here. Her only remaining family members that she grew up with (brother and father) both died during Covid. Neither died of Covid, but the depression she suffers for their passing is very tough for her to deal with, and it didn't help that she couldn't be there with them at their final moments. Then I up and moved her away from the rest of our immediate family by moving to Illinois where she knows no one outside of my group of friends and family. The reason itself is that I just don't want to leave her alone to go off and do fun things while she's at home being lonely and thinking about things that aren't fun at all.
Reason #2 is my friends here aren't golfers and aren't starting any time soon. My one friend who loves golf really can't. He's got osteoporosis really bad to the point he can break a bone just walking. He wants me to take him out, but I can just see him breaking an arm by making too much contact with the ground or some such other bad swing issue. He's going to make me do it, so sometime in the next couple of months when it's warm enough out, I will take him out.
Reason #3 is I just don't really want to spend the money now that we are on a fixed income. Saving the money to allow for more trips to California to see the kids and grandkids is higher on the list of priorities.
I haven't been good at golf for the most part, having only hit the '70's twice and mostly mid '80's at the highlight of my best golf since I took it up. It doesn't bother me to still shoot high '90's on a really hard course and from the blue tees, but hitting 100 still happens on a rare occasion and I absolutely hate that. Having now been away from nearly weekly golf every week of the year in SoCal and Vegas to only golfing once a year when I'm back there, I can proudly say I scored below '90 on some hard courses each time I was there. You don't loose that muscle memory that easily I guess.
I've played some amazing golf courses like Pebble Beach, Spyglass, Spanish Bay, Wolf Creek, Torrey Pines, Del Mar Country Club, San Diego Country Club and Ram's Hill just to name a few, and all of that will likely just have to live in my memory bank now as I drift farther away from a game I enjoyed a lot because the competitive group I golfed with made it fun. The famous par 3 green overlooking the ocean at Pebble Beach has been my cell phone background picture since I first snapped that photo on the course, June 19th, 2012. Favorite course I ever played was Wolf Creek in Mesquite NV. Course I played that makes me sad, is Trump National in Los Angeles. I played it for free, but it makes me sick to think I did anything anywhere with the Trump name on it.