As you might be discovering, this board is not very friendly towards posters who make claims without revealing their sources. If you really think it is worth discussing the sordid details of a marriage from so many years ago with anonymous posters on an internet message board, it might be helpful to provide some kind of documentation for your claims, if for instance you read them in a newspaper or magazine article, or, if the source was something other than professional media, by indicating in some other way how you came across this information. Otherwise you will surely continue to be a laughingstock. I would warn you, though, that the evidenciary standards on this board are, in general, rather high, and that Ryno's reputation as a straightforward, standup guy only adds to the difficulties you would face, should you to choose to continue press your point. Given these difficulties, it is difficult to envision a scenario in which your continued insistance on this point would be interpreted as anything other than surprisingly irrational behavior, since your efforts would in all probability be not only futile but directed towards an objective of apparently minimal value. After all, the opinions of the members of an internet message board about the private, decade-old martial events of public figures are quite meaningless: since they are neither in a position to know what they are talking nor in a position where their opinion should matter, the opinions they happen to have or express about this are little more than the most banal form of trivia.