Ya, I just don't understand why it stops. When I was living with the "female dog", it was a nightly thing. If we were to have gotten married, why would that have changed? I don't understand. honestly, i think some women really just don't like it that much (or are "trained" not to like it by their moms) and so only comply until they get the ring. These would be gold diggers, but there are a surprising number of women who are like this.